Learning a Foreign Language -
I am
dedicating this entry to language acquisition and applaud all of you who are
pushing yourself to master another language. I can attest learning another
language is not for the faint of heart. It can be challenging, embarrassing and
of course rewarding.
My personal
journey learning Japanese has been like most adult students I expect.
Because I have so many roles to fulfill in any given day, actual study time can
be hard to come by. Not to mention because you are an adult, you are expected
to keep you with adult conversation. I want to share some of my most amusing,
humiliating and hopefully encouraging experiences with language acquisition
while living in Japan.
The first few months after we arrived I admit there were days I would not leave the house because of the emotional energy required to go out. Sometimes I just did not have the energy to try and explain myself, communicate through charades or try and find a specific ingredient at the grocery store to no avail. Some days honestly, I just opted to stay home and not try and communicate with anyone who did not speak English.
English Conversation Group –
The first
year in Japan, Bob was invited by one of our neighbors to a retired English
conversation group in our community. The original meeting was over a year ago
and that interaction has led to some wonderful friendships. As a result of that first meeting we have
attended several community activities including their annual summer BBQ, a local
summer festival, lunches with various members of the group and game days at our local elementary school.
Several
members of the English conversation group have also attended our American style
Thanksgiving, Spring Festival at our school, as well as the monthly English
conversation service held at our local faith community.
We have had
such a wonderful time getting to know this unique, adventurous and fun loving
group. The menu for this BBQ included a variety of grilled vegetables, steamed tofu, inoshishi (wild
boar), grilled beef, pork and onigiri (seasoned rice balls). We had so much fun
with these friends and are thankful they include us in some of the English conversation
group activities.
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English Conversation Group |
Stephanie’s Mimi Basketball Team –
We loved
being a part of our community basketball team. It was not easy at first because
everything associated with the team was of course in Japanese and we could not
read or write much. Thanks to a couple of team mom’s who were sympathetic to our situation and made sure we knew what we
needed to know, we were able to navigate the various team activities. They were a gift and probably have no idea how much their kindness meant to us. We cherish their friendship and their grace towards us.
One particular
incident that stands out above the rest was the day we had a parents vs. players’
basketball game. After finishing the games we broke for a Somen noodle lunch.
Each family brought cooked Somen noodles, they sent them down a bamboo pipe cut
in half with water and edamame (soybean pods) and kids and parents lined the
bamboo shoots and scooped Somen noodles from the trough. We ate them out of
bowls with delicious Somen sauce. So…we dutifully brought our cooked Somen
noodles and gave them to the mom’s in charge of the event, got out our obento
(sack lunch) and fully enjoyed the experience complete with kakigori (flavored
shaved ice).
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Alex eating Somen noodles at mini basketball |
At the close
of the event there were a group of four to five mothers standing around
visiting after cleaning up the day’s activities. One of the mom’s handed me a
plastic container of left-over cooked Somen noodles. I thanked her for the
noodles and saw some Katakana written on the top of the plastic container. “Thank
you for the noodles, who do I return the container to I asked.” The mother
looked at me in a puzzled way and I asked the question again. I knew a couple
of the mom’s in this group pretty well and she says, “It is yours. It says
Chadduck san.” “Oh, the dish is mine”, I said turning totally red faced and
now profusely laughing at myself. They
said it has your name written on it. “I cannot read Katakana” I said, “My
husband wrote it on the container.”
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Our name in Katakana |
We all had a
long and hearty laugh at my expense but I knew these women and they were not
trying to humiliate me so I just rolled with it. Honestly, it became a standing
joke among us for the rest of the basketball season. This was one of many
silly, embarrassing and sometimes downright humiliating experiences but it is
all part of being in a culture where
everything
is new.
I found there were a handful of mom’s who wanted to practice English and they
were as tentative about trying to use their broken English as I was about
Japanese. I relish those mothers who did not let their likelihood of being
embarrassed keep them from trying or pursuing relationship with me. Some of
those mothers who stepped out and tried to bridge the gap will forever be the most
cherished relationships I have made in Japan.
Japanese Lessons with Matsui Sensei –
This past
year I was able to take private Japanese lessons for about 6 months with Matsui
Sensei. Until moving to Japan I was sort of oblivious to my inability to speak
another language. I really had no idea how unusual it is to be monolingual and
what a huge disadvantage I was at having only taken a couple years of foreign
language in high school. Having said that, Japanese is a really, really hard language
to learn and it does not come easy for me. I looked up some statistics on the Language
Testing International website which states for example, Spanish takes something
like 24 weeks or 720 hours of intensive and/or immersion study, in a 1:4 class
ratio to attain their levels of expected performance while Japanese takes
something like 80 – 92 weeks, or 2,400 - 2,760 hours of the same level of study
to attain expected performance levels.
OK, did you
catch that? Based upon those statistics it looks to me like Japanese is going
to take almost four times the effort to attain the same level or mastery! When
I read those statistics I thought that is impossible, I will be an infant in
Japanese forever! I will never actually be able to carry on a conversation and
be understood.
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Japanese Lesson |
What I have
learned though, is by studying vocabulary and phrases, I have been able to
participate in conversations. Albeit
rudimentary, I am able to get across basic ideas, concepts and follow the
conversations around me to get the gist of what is being discussed. Another
huge piece of this is the Japanese in my circles and community are very
gracious and polite. As long as I am trying they are really patient with my broken Japanese. I admit sometimes it is a hybrid of what little Japanese I know
and a bit of charades thrown in as well. But hey, each time I meet with a group
to practice my Japanese and their English, I walk away from the interaction
knowing four to five more words in context and I notice I am able to pick up
more of the conversation.
Let me just
say language accusation is amazing, difficult and wonderful! I am stunned at
how many students are taking my high school English class in their second
or third language. Kudo’s to you! You impress me so much and I love working
with you as we make learning language fun! You are my inspiration to keep
working on my two year old Japanese. I aspire to attain some of the language
mastery you demonstrate every day in English class. You guys are incredible!
Thank you for following our adventure and for your support. We appreciate your commitment and investment in what God is doing in Japan. Please continue to pray for our family and those God brings across our path.
In Christ,
K. Chadduck